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Generally the male partner is expected to be the final decision-maker in most matters, and the female is expected to submit to him.
Discipline is a fairly major aspect of Ti H relationships and is used by the man on the woman to either punish a transgression (flagrant disobedience, arguing etc.) or as a means to end an unending dispute.Taken in Hand (sometimes abbreviated as Ti H) is a neologism that refers to a style of monogamous, heterosexual relationship which is male-led.The female submits to her male partner's decisions in matters of everyday life.Non-Sexual Dynamics Most Taken in Hand relationships exist between couples who are married or at least highly committed.The root of the idea of a Taken in Hand relationship is that the female will submit to the male in matters of everyday life.To what extent and which areas this covers varies from couple to couple, from a general avoidance of conflict by letting the male partner “get his way” to almost complete submission to the preferences of the man in matters such as clothing, friendships with others, styling of hair and many other things.
It is quite common in Ti H relationships for the woman to generally curtail her social life significantly so as devote more time to the relationship.
Unlike BDSM relationships, Ti H relationships are strictly “real life” rather than consisting of negotiated scenes.
Whilst many BDSM activities take place mostly within the bedroom or the “Scene” (parties, clubs etc.) Ti H relationships place a great deal of emphasis on everyday “vanilla” submission to the authority of the male as “Head of Household” (Ho H) in a committed and long term relationship.
The discipline rendered may be verbal scolding or loss of privileges, but is most often physical (usually a spanking).
In this context it is intended to be un-erotic and not desired (though it is consensual).
Unlike BDSM Master/slave relationships, the woman in a Ti H relationship is not regarded in any way as owned property.